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What Guam Taught Me as a Military Spouse

What Guam Taught Me as a Military Spouse

By Katie McDonald

 

When my husband first received orders to Guam, my mind swirled with fear of the unknown. Being thousands of miles away from our friends and family made me think of all that I was leaving behind; however, as I reflect on our time on this beautiful island, I am filled with gratitude for all that I’ve gained and learned.

 

Grocery Shopping: A Study in Flexibility

Before moving to Guam, I didn’t think twice about my grocery list. I could stroll into Walmart, Publix, or Target and know that everything I needed (and lots of things I didn’t!) would be readily available, and Amazon and Instacart could fill in the gaps within hours. However, Guam’s distance from the mainland means there’s a more limited selection in stores and far slower shipping times. I’ve taken this change as a challenge to be more flexible and spontaneous. While I was previously unfamiliar with bok choy, long beans, and sweet potato tips, I’ve incorporated all of them into my cooking. Berries are an expensive treat, so locally grown bananas have become the star of my baking instead. When a store restocks my favorite brand (Oui yogurt!), it’s cause for celebration, and I don’t take these little moments of joy for granted. 

Guam Shopping Guides:
The Ultimate Guide to Grocery Shopping on Guam
Guam Shipping Guide

Banana tree in our yard.

 

Typhoons: A Study in Community

Guam was battered by Typhoons Sinlaku and Bavi within three months, and while these stressful disasters could have brought out people’s selfishness, it instead showed their generosity. When I was preparing for Bavi, I found myself overwhelmed in Home Depot with my two-month-old daughter. An employee didn’t hesitate to take my cart, help me find exactly what I needed, and help me get my bulky fans to the register. Families opened their homes to friends who needed air conditioning and a hot shower. By sharing resources and working together, the community was stronger and more successful.

Tumon Night Market after Typhoon Bavi.

 

Plane Tickets: A Study in Adventure

Before moving to Guam, I struggled to locate it on a map and thought its remote location would make me feel isolated. However, I quickly learned that Guam is just a short flight away from many major cities, making travel to bucket-list destinations like Japan and South Korea accessible. My husband and I have traveled to Saipan, Tokyo, and Kyoto, and we have friends who’ve enjoyed Vietnam, the Philippines, Palau, Australia, and Bali. Asia and the Pacific Islands are at your doorstep, and saying “yes” to the adventure has given me unforgettable cultural experiences. I can now say that I’ve enjoyed an omakase sushi dinner on Thanksgiving, explored historic temples and palaces, and visited World War II battle sites.

Travel Guides: 
Guam to Tokyo
Guam to Osaka
Guam to Korea
Guam to Palau

Traditional Japanese tea ceremony in Tokyo.

 

Our time in Guam has been an invitation to focus on personal growth. The unique challenges of island life have made me more resilient, flexible, and brave, and the welcoming community has shown me the importance of generosity and hospitality. As we prepare for our next adventure, I feel confident knowing that Guam has taught me well for whatever lies ahead.

 
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